The first person to put all 10 fingers down loses or wins, depending on how you look at it. They tell us about the fantasy, and why it turns them on. Then, they actually do it, and we get the lowdown on how the experience matched the fantasy. Maria and Eli are a married couple from Chicago in their early 30s.
The answer from women who have tried it — and liked it? Yes, it definitely gets them turned on why else would they do it, huh? Here, women share what their experience of having anal sex is like — complete with GIFs, because, ya know, sometimes something so dirty requires a little humor:. She added that her decision was made because she was so comfortable with him that she knew she could trust him with something very sensitive and potentially painful. For most women, it was important to set some basic guidelines with their partner before beginning the act.
Located inside the anus, the prostrate is essentially a male G-spot. However, for some straight men there is a lot of shame, guilt, and confusion around admitting you enjoy anal. To these men, to enjoy butt stuff is to admit that they enjoy something predominately revered in the gay community.
She also noted that if your partner had a bad or painful experience before, it could be difficult to give it another go. Pleasure is pleasure! So how do you incorporate anal sex into your routine? Here are some ground rules before you make a pass at the rear door:. Since it involves more than typical intercourse and may be painful for her at first, discussing boundaries is important.